Love can fail, yet love can blossom as well. Broken hearts can get worse, or get better from the same person that broke it. Love is a strange thing, crazy even. To be honest, this blog was inspired by the last person who broke my heart. I loved him too much, and I hated it, absolutely hated it. I tried to block myself out from him, be cautious, not get attached, of course, it didn't work. I always try so hard to succeed with that, but some people, very few, make it so easy for me to love them.  I simply can't help it.
     A lot of people tell me not to pay attention to boys because I have a life and a future and blah blah blah. Yet, boys are so.. So much more fun than playing checkers, if you get what I'm saying. Yet, they hurt you when you fall too hard. But who's to blame, a heart needs to be broken once in a while, right? That's how I see it anyway, I lost my train of thought cause I'm talking to someone very, very special to me..
    Ah yes, failing love is what I was talking about. Or that's what I thought I would talk about, the text it right there. The number one cause of divorce in America, is marriage. That doesn't mean you shouldn't get married, just remember, through thick and thing, sick and health, rich and poor. It doesn't matter if you really do love the person, everyone had bumps in the road once in a while. It's not always a big deal, if they cheat on you well that's a different story.. But ask why they did it. I've forgiven so many, and never asked why they would hurt me like that.
     But EVERYONE has bumps in the road, family, couples, and even soul mates. You just can't blame someone because perhaps they had a rough day or the stress was just crushing them. Maybe they over react cause they are SCARED. It's really important, if you want to maintain a relationship, to understand. I understand, fights are usually a relationship breaker, but you can't just give up due to one fight. Stress is such a big element as well.
    I regret so many fights I've had, whether it was with family, or someone else I loved. I always wish I could go back in time, make everything right..


                         ~ Haley J. Goodman